reflective blog #10

Ooops. I blogged backwards. Apparently last week I was supposed to blog about the cyber liaison article. Oh well. So anyways, I did end up finally reading the article and I found it very interesting. At first, I immediately figured out that the guy was intending to turn a simple email relationship into something more. I assumed the woman (and author of the article) would be totally against this since she was aware that he was married with a young child. Usually women are more aware of this and care a lot about destructing a relationship. However, in this case, she was hooked on this guy and their online affair. They were able to relate well to each other as each had was handicapped and it seemed like a match made in heaven but it couldnt be because the guy was married....simple as that. It didnt help matters that each of them lacked a social life because of their disability and this is what I feel was both of their downfalls. In any6 other case, I would completely encourage this relationship and support it. Its great that two people can meet each other and develop a great relationship and a common bond and still have some kind of a social life even if its online. However, in this case, it cant work out given the circumstances. Im sure even though this article is somewhat out dated, this is a common problem that happens all the time on the web. Two people meet accidentally and realize that they are absolutely perfect for each other but some conflict is keeping them apart...a conflict like marriage. Sometimes, the relationship is ended because of the conflict but other times, online relationships can ruin real-life relationships with spouses. Just another way the web can help OR harm you.

reflective blog #9

Although it is considered a "chick-flick," I must admit that the movie, "You've Got Mail" was pretty good. At times, I found it hard to stay focused on finding material from class within the movie because I had become so involved with the storyline. (please keep those recent comments away from my guy-friends...thanks.) Anyways, one thing in particular that stood out to be was the different personalities Joe Fox seemed to have. WHen he was online talking with Kathleen, he seemed like a very sensitive and understanding guy. He was easy to talk to and seemed to be very down to earth. However, in person he sometimes acted like he was into himself. For instance, whenever he and Kathleen were enemies and fighting about the fate of her bookstore, he was egotistic and bragged about his bookstore being better. He seemed to take on a different identity and was somewhat of a smart-ass (pardon the french) and it completely turned Kathleen off and she didnt like him at all. Little did she know, she was totally falling for him online. How can this be? Well, Joe shaped his online identity differently than his real-life one. Joe was in search of finding a better woman in his life and wanted to make sure that he did all the right things to attract the opposite sex. He was kind, easy to talk to, understandable, and always offered a helpful and sometimes flirtacious word to Kathleen. In the end, Joe was able to mold both identities together and express his true self to Kathleen. She liked him alot more once he started to act like the man she met on the internet and they fell in love and lived happily ever after.
I liked the movie alot and this was the main concept that stood out to me from class. Online identity and how it can vary enough from your real-life indentity to cause some conflict.

reflective blog #8

Another shorts week. Im definitely not complaing but it makes blogging somewhat difficult. I try to blog about things we did in class but its hard when we only had one class this past week. I guess ill take a moment to talk about the video we watched from youtube. I thought it was very powerful story and it definitely touched many people on the youtube community including myself. I cant believe that a video camera, a very sick girl, a concerned loving mother, and a very passionate individual can start a world-wide campaign. Its so awesome that people all over the world can see this girl and realize the pain she is going through and most importantly pray for her. It also provides them an opportunity to touch base with and effect the young girls life and for some people, including myself, it makes us realize how lucky we are to be healthy. Its so nice to see youtube and the internet being used to positively effect someones life, istead of just serving as a source of entertainment.

reflective blog #7

Oooops! I forgot to blog last week. Shame on me but I got busy with baseball and broadcasting and it completely slipped my mind. Oh well, enough with the excuses. This brings about a topic I was thinking about recently when I realized I hadnt blogged: People use blogging in different manners. For me, I like to use my blog site to display some of my work and update people (particularly family) about my life. I knwo that some people use blogging as an everyday journal where they go and vent about their day and take a "dear diary" approach to blogging. I usually dont need to vent about my day and if it was a crazy and stressful, I vent to my pillow at night when I fall asleep. This is what I blame for my inconsistency with com 301's weekly reflective blogging. If I had a reason to access my blog every night, I would remember and probably get into a routine to blog for class and might even feel compelled enough to blog more than once a week about whats going in com 301. However, I just use my blogger as a personal website to display my work and keep people up to date with my life which only requires me to blog every so often.